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by Kym Jones <kymj(at)airmail.net>
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No, you're quite right, it doesn't...it doesn't "rise" to "anything"..it
lowers the tone of the list and lowers the self esteem of the person to
whom it is directed!
I had teachers who were "harsh" and "brusque" when I was at school and I
learned nothing from any of them. I learned from the ones that cared
enough to be pleasant and helpful.
There's nothing wrong with directness, but there are ways of being direct
without unnecessarily hurting the feelings of others and destroying their
confidence.
Most of us here, I would assume, have left school and have no need to be
chastised like children.
Come to think of it..I wouldn't speak to my children in the same manner
either.
It's called respect....respect for feelings of others...it works!
>A "harsh" or "brusque" tone doesn't rise to the level of rudeness.
>Did any of you folks go to art school? Were your teachers always
>dancing around your tender feelings? Of course not. Sometimes,
>directness drives home the point more effectively than niceness.
>Remember, this is NOT a "support group", it's a critique list.
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>Okay?
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>--
>Bob Ladd
>bob(at)laddweb.com
>http://www.laddweb.com
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